August 31, 2007
Mixed Bag of Results
The minute I saw Big I’s face when I picked her up from school, I knew I wasn’t going to get a good report. She looked tired, deflated, and just plain sad. She started crying before we reached the car. The day was too long, she missed me and Lil C too much, and she just wasn’t going back to do that again.
We eventually got to the good stuff. Her teacher is nice. She had fun seeing her friends again. Lunch wasn’t so bad. There were two recesses (Man, who wouldn’t love that???). She’ll get used to it. She was like this last year with Kindergarten. First grade is going to take some getting used to as well. I’m really happy she has a four day weekend, and that next week is another short week. She needs a gradual introduction to this all day business (and to be honest, so do I). I must say though, that I held up way better than I did last year. I had a teary moment or two, but that was it. At least one of us made it through the day without full on tears.
After a couple hours of decompressing, Big I and I made our way to our new dojo. It only took us about eight minutes to get there (during traffic-I’m so loving the shorter commute), so we were early. We stood outside and talked about what we thought it was going to be like. Big I was excited, but nervous. I was feeling the same.
Then, a fabulous looking motorcycle drove into the parking lot and there was our new teacher (an impressive 9th degree black belt even without the motorcycle entrance). With such an outstanding entrance, Big I was already losing her nerves. "Is that my teacher?" she asked excitedly. Once inside, she was also very floored by the various pictures on the walls of our new teachers from magazines, newspaper articles, etc. I explained who they all were, and she marveled, "Wow! They’re famous!"
We changed, got situated, were introduced and then started our work out, and a work out it was. There were a couple hundred kicks (from a ground-fighting position which was new to us and pretty cool). Yes, I will be paying for those cool kicks tomorrow. The muscles are already starting to complain a bit.
The higher ranks separated and did kata while Big I stayed with the lower ranks and worked on something else. I don’t know what they were doing because I was concentrating on my own stuff; but I do know that she excitedly talked to me about seeing how to break that "muscle" which most people know as the collar bone on the way home. I informed her that it’s actually a bone, for future reference. That only increased the excitement.
At the end of the two hours, I’m pretty sure there was steam rising from my head, and my gi. . . well, it needs to be washed and badly. It was a great work out and a fun night. It felt awesome to be back in karate class again. I’m happy to say that my neck seems to have held up pretty well. I’m sure I’ll have some soreness tomorrow, but that’s to be expected as I continue to heal.
Big I and I spent the drive home discussing our new dojo, and it’s quite obvious that she does not have the reservations about our new karate school that she obviously has about first grade. It seems that Big I and I will fit in there quite well. It already felt very comfortable. Today may have been a bit shaky with the first grade business; but tonight was an overwhelming success.
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Awesome! Your new teacher seems like a movie star, like maybe Don “the Dragon” Wilson or something.
Big I knows how to break a clavicle for self-defense? That’s neat! I was sorry to hear she didn’t like school. But I imagine it will get better.
Is she going to school full day?!! Then it must be tough. Over here, we do half days (okay, I maybe wrong :P)
I guess it’ll just take sometime for her as well as you and Lil C to get used to this new routine. Time is always the answer…
I’m glad that you guys had a good night at your new dojo. Change is a hard thing to handle sometimes.
Things have been so…AHHH….for me lately that I haven’t been to class in forever. I am going to pop in and see about scheduling some private lessons so I can catch up a bit. I hear we are starting tonfas soon.
Glad to hear that the day ended up so well, and that your neck held up. I had to work late yesterday and so I didn’t see 3B before he went to bed, which made me sad, so I can’t imagine what all day school is like. Then again, 3B made up for it by getting up twice in the night with a stuffed up nose and a cough. Now I’m too tired to be sad.
So glad you and Big I had a successful first day at your new dojo. I enjoyed karate last night as well. I just love it more and more and learned spinning back kicks and spinning back fist punches along with a bunch of other “just beyond basic” stuff. Not even sore today. Yay!
I was so surprised to see that you switched dojos. How wonderful that you can keep your rank. You sure have been posting and I’m now playing catch-up. Love the pics as always!
Don’t you hate it when schools have all day kindergarten–it’s entirely for the parents.
Best wishes w/school, karate, etc.!
it sounds like everyone’s going to make it through. 🙂 i’m glad you both like your new dojo so much!
I remember the adjustment from SK to Grade 1 was HUGE. It took a while,he was tired. Then they threw in homework. (To say nothing that all of a sudden I was the mom of a school aged child. It’ll get easier. Homework sucks much.
Maybe I missed the entry but why did you change dojos?
Scott: Seriously! It was sort of like that, at least for Big I anyway. 😉 And yes, I’m hoping it gets better too!
Sesame: Yes, full day. Last year was the end of our half day fun.
WG: I was expecting it to take a while to feel comfortable. It was a very nice surprise to feel so great from the first class. Tunfa is great!
PB: I am frequently too tired to. . . fill in the blank. I hear you!
Lisa: I wish. I am super sore. It will take some time to get back in the swing of things.
CG: Wonderful indeed! We’re quite pleased with that.
Sizzle: Me too!
Nat: Homework does suck much. She had it twice a week last year. I am DREADING it this year. It’s like going through school all over again! Ugh. Check the last entry on the reasons but basically: husband’s work schedule, babysitter availability, commute, etc.
Awww poor Big I, I remember those first days of school. They get a little easier, but not much…..it’s always so nerve wracking. =\
As far as the new teacher goes….sounds wonderful! Good luck!!
Very cool blog. It’s great that you are giving Big I the opportunity to learn from good teachers. I also liked your post about the View. I especially like the name of your site and the way you use the black belt image.
Kid Reviewer
Awright, baybee! BBM back in the dojo! Kickin it with the 9th dan murdercycle gangsta! Keep it up. I can’t wait to read more. Remember – the only thing that is constant is change.
Hugs to Big I. The first days of school can be tough, but she is a strong girl with a very supportive mom. I’ve no doubt she’ll do fine.
Homework, I once babysat a 6 year old who had homework every night. Lots of homework. I thought it was rediculous to pile that much on one so young.
Ahh, spammers. I got one too. A long, obscenity filled, wierd post that not only had nothing to do with what I had blogged about that day, it just plain didn’t make sense. I deleted it without even reading it. After the first f-bomb, to the garbage it went.
Glad to hear that you are “back in the saddle” concerning karate. Now, please take it as easy as you can on yourself.
School can be quite a demand on a young heart especially when one has such a loving, supportive, and fun home to go to.. I wish your daughter the best school year ever.
Maniacal: I expect the next week to be tough-then I hope it gets better.
KidReviewer: Thanks for all your nice comments and for visiting my site! You are pretty cool yourself!
Patrick: Uh, I wouldn’t go that far. He’s definitey not a “murdercycle gangsta.” I’m not exactly sure what that is to be honest. But BBM is finally back in the dojo and very happy about it! Glad to see you are too.
Becky: Thank you, and I believe we had the exact same spammer.
SuperGroup: I’ll try, but it just feels so good to be DOING something active again. Thanks for the well-wishes for Big I.