December 8, 2006
Note for the Neurosurgeon
Dear Dr. Neurosurgeon:
Here’s something you don’t just casually mention after your patient (my Dad) has had a craniotomy when it’s over the phone, not in person and via another person:
"We might have to drill some more holes in your head."
Seriously, what the hell?
Sincerely,
The Patient’s Very Annoyed and Upset Daughter
Ah what sounds good to the medical (particularly surgical mind) like – “I’ll let them know what we might need to do straightaway” often sounds much, much worse to the patient (and family!).
We have much experience with this and can sympathise!
What a complete lack of empathy and bedside manor. Typical.