May 27, 2006
“Vacation, all I ever wanted. . .” (minus the head injury)
If your comments take a while to appear, or if it seems I haven’t been a good commenter lately, it’s because I’m on vacation, y’all. Yeah, I said "y’all". My family and I are vacationing in North Carolina at the beach; and after living in the Northeast for almost my entire life, it always shocks and amazes me how nice the people are down here. Nice, y’all, really nice. You may ask why I am blogging while at the beach on this gorgeous afternoon; but it’s because I am on hotel room nap duty. Lil C is out like a light and is enjoying her first uninterrupted nap since Thursday night. I’m blogging before digging into my pile of books I’ve been saving for such an occasion. It all works out.
So far, we’ve only had one little problem on our trip. This little problem has brought to my attention yet another difference between men and women. Let me ask you this. . . when you are driving and you put the car in reverse, do you simply turn your head and use your mirrors to see where you’re going? Or, do you need some help from your arm, as in drape your arm over the back of the passenger seat in order to facilitate your turning around? When I reverse, I turn my head. When my husband reverses, he puts his whole body into it.
Last night, this little physical anomaly caused some serious head trauma. We were backing out of a restaurant. My husband was driving. I turned around and was in the process of retrieving some toys that had been thrown on the floor by Lil C. The next thing I know, I am being clothes-lined by my husband’s arm. As he flung his arm from my seat, back to where it should be, he hit me with an outside block to the ear and head so hard that all I could hear for a few seconds was, "whop, whop, whop." When he made contact, my head moved at a very unnatural angle to my neck and sent pain shooting up my neck and into my head. I felt like the entire left side of my brain was throbbing.
So, as I’m reeling from the blow and trying to figure out what just happened, he decides to school me on not putting my head there while he’s reversing. Because his response wasn’t a resounding, "I’m so sorry. Are you o.k.?" right away, I was slightly peeved. So, I decided to accuse him of having a genetic defect that many men seem to have. . . the inability to reverse a vehicle without using their arm to turn their body. What is up with that???
A few sucker punches to his arm later (and one well deserved apology), I felt a little better about the whole thing; but that didn’t stop the raging headache that lasted until this morning. Ouch. I am hoping that this will be the last of the vacation injuries.
I am happy to report that when leaving a grocery store today and reversing, my husband was able to do so without the aid of his arm. It’s progress people. I’m hoping I can break him of this potentially head-rattling problem by the time our vacation ends. But let’s not talk about that, because this vacation has only just begun. . .
Wow, sounds like a painful experience. You’re right, the least he could have done was apologize. Interesting observation about the arm thing. I think you’re right. It’s a guy thing.
Where in NC did you go? My family used to go to the Outer Banks. I hated it. I resolve never to go there as an adult.
You mean you couldn’t high block your husband’s “clothes-line”? I’m very dissapointed. I hope the poor guy’s arm is OK from slugging you. Enjoy your vacation!
Hey! You’re in my neck of the woods
*Waves*
Junebee: I’m in Corolla and Nags Head. We roll two vacations into one; and I LOVE it here. I’ve been coming here since I was a kid. And, my husband’s a good guy. He was probably just explaining himself first because he knew I was going to make him PAY! He did apologize. . . eventually, and finally without laughing. (growls)
John: I never saw it coming, as I was looking at the floor for toys. I’ll be practicing some bunkai on my husband as payback.
WG: waving right back at ‘ya. Love your neck of the woods!
umm… I do that when I’m in reverse.. then again, I am a guy. I have never hit anybody when doing though:) Seriously though, why didn’t your supernatural mom ability to know when something is going wrong kick in… j/k NC isn’t too far from where I am in SC. We used to go to Nags Head quite a bit when I was in my teens and I loved it there. My favorite vacation spot will always be Charleston SC though. Beautiful old houses, city steeped in southern history, horse drawn cabs, AWESOME ghost tours… Okay, I’m starting to sound like I work for the board of tourism or something. Enjoy your vacation and watch out for those stray “reverse strikes” ^^
I actually laughed at this post. Or should I say at my computer?
It’s the kind of thing that my gf would do. Very typical. Hit me, that is. You see, with my now cracked ribs, we were listening to a movie and her hand was laying on my ribs. To get up, she pushed herself off me. With that hand. OUCH!
But it’s always that way. So, it’s nice to see that there are other martyrs out there :).
How’s your husband’s arm now that you sucker punched him? ouch!
Dude…my husband will step on MY foot and then lecture me about keeping my feet out of his way. Huh???? Of course this sends me on a tirade about ALL the times he’s stepped on my feet yada, yada, yada and may have even included a few sucker punched to the arm, too…lol
Huh- I’ll have to pay attention the next time my hubby backs up! I’m pretty sure he just turns his head…and yeah, I totally would sucker punch him if he cracked me in the head like that! Ouch!
We had our honeymoon in Kure Beach in NC! It rained the whole time…and neither of us like the ocean or the beach (yeah, I don’t know, either, lol)…I hope you have a great vacation! Despite the head trauma!
Ouch!
My FIL once punched my MIL while he was sleeping and dreaming. He is the most passive, gentle man, so it was so hilarious when my MIL told me how she got her black eye. He was dreaming about someone jumping him in a dark alley.
Hope your head is recovering!